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I am so grateful that you are choosing to work with me.
It takes tremendous courage to face our fears and move forward with our visions, and I am delighted to be a part of your process.
Here are the next steps:
If we haven’t worked together before, please fill out an intake form for the type of session you’ve signed up for:
+ 1:1 Coaching Intake Form
+ 1:1 Shadow Tender Intake FormFor one-off sessions: you will receive an email confirmation with a Zoom link for the day of our session, as well as an email reminder 24 hours in advance.
For session packages: I will email you a link that you can use to schedule and manage your sessions with me directly. You are welcome to reschedule with no extra fees up to 24 hours in advance.
Here is what to expect for our sessions:
For the appointment, please log-in on-time and have a journal and writing utensil handy.
Please make sure you have a stable internet connection and uninterrupted privacy for the duration of our Zoom call so that we can use our time most effectively.
If you signed up for a Shadow Tender session, please wear comfortable clothing you can move in. A list of Shadow Tender FAQ’s can be found here.
You will receive a follow-up email from me within 48 hrs after our session with any resources or additional assignments as discussed on our call.
If you have any additional questions, please feel free to email me directly.
Refunds & Cancellations
I understand that things come up.
I will gladly issue a full refund of your payment if a cancellation is made 24 hours in advance of our scheduled meeting time.
If you cancel in less than 24 hrs, you will incur a 50% cancellation fee.
Please note:
Individual coaching and Shadow Tender work are an excellent compliment to a personal contemplative practice or existing therapeutic process, but they cannot replace the guidance of a trained counselor or psychotherapist. I am an artist, a coach, and a teacher, and the purpose of these sessions is to offer educational tools and structures for creative exploration, expression, professional and personal growth. I am not a licensed mental health care provider, and the services I provide are not designed for those who are currently working with or going through acute crisis or trauma.
I strongly encourage anybody pursuing Shadow Tender work or rigorous self-development to have ample outside support and resources (family, friends, therapists, community, etc) to help navigate the material that may arise out of such a process. I would be happy to make suggestions or referrals for mental health care services as part of our coaching work together.
Honor teachers, respect your ancestors :
My work and coaching approach was developed across a variety of spaces - intellectually, temporally, and geographically - which is itself an enormous privilege.
No teacher, no ancestor is perfect or without flaw, yet a constellation of teachers can begin to weave clearer and clearer paths for inquiry shaped by integrity, curiosity, and greater self-awareness. I openly credit and honor those whose work has become a foundation for my own approaches and teaching methodology:
The teaching methodology, academic guidance, and insights of La Donna Forsgren, Les Gray, Theresa May, and Alexandra Bonds
The research of Spee Kosloff, Jeff Greenberg, and other scholars of Terror Management Theory
The writings and scholarly research of Judika Illes
The breathing methodologies of Konstantin Buteyko
The teachings and writings of Milton Erickson
The teachings of butoh artists Diego Piñon, Hiroko & Koichi Tamano, Yumiko Yoshioka, and others
The communication strategies taught by Kasia Urbaniak and Ruben Flores at the Academy
Shadow Tender collaborators and co-teachers: Maria Thomas, Magdalena Kaczmarska, and Adam Cooper-Terán
Eastern European and Central Asian folklore and fairytales as passed through oral and written traditions
The teachings & writings of Marshall Rosenberg and his theory of Nonviolent Communication
The psychodramatic approaches of Alejandro Jodorowsky
The research of Peter Levine and Somatic Experiencing
The original writings and theories of Carl G. Jung